REASON #2:
HE'S THE PROVIDER
Maybe your
guy is used to taking care of you, and feeling really good about
that. The kind of man that lives by the motto, "Family first, me
second." Providing for a partner and family can be a strong source
of confidence and wherewithal for a man. The idea of now having to
be taken care of may make him feel weak. He doesn't want to
overburden you, tax you, or cause you stress. For this reason, he
may bottle up negative feelings.
WHAT YOU CAN DO: Reinforce to him that you're a team
and take care of each other, and that you feel closer to him when he
includes you in his life, even if his own life, thoughts, and
feeling are revolving around prostate cancer. Offer silent support
by making home-cooked meals and stocking your home with healthy options. "In my
experience, men who are healthiest are often more likely to get
access to advanced therapies because they're strong enough to
tolerate them," says Poage.